dear abby
Erie Times-NewsFeb 12, 2018
Although we live near each other, my in-laws now say they don't want me in their homes. The stress this has put on my husband is unfair. His brother obviously has a problem with me.
I never discuss marijuana with anyone and don't carry it around with me. I use it only in the privacy of my home. How should I expect my husband to handle holidays or even regular get-togethers? - Unfair in
Dear Unfair: Medical and recreational marijuana are legal for adults in the state of
How your husband chooses to handle further contact, or lack of it, with his relatives will be his personal decision. Not knowing how close they have been, I can't guess what his next step should be, except to point out that his first loyalty should be to you.
There's this one guy that I kind of like, but I don't know how to strike up a conversation with him. I know I could ask him for rides to places since he can drive and I can't yet.
My problem is I have no classes with him this year, so I can't do any of the "can you help me with homework" or "did you understand this concept" flirting. He invites me to his parties, but he does that with almost everyone.
I'm hoping for advice on how to start a conversation. - Small School Problem
Dear Small School Problem: Discuss current events, pop culture or school activities. Tell him about things you like. Because many high school-age boys are interested in sports, find out which ones he's interested in and ask questions about those. Unless he's sports-averse, I can almost guarantee it'll generate conversation.
I was so excited, I couldn't wait to tell my husband. His reaction? "Don't tell me ?Cathy' is pregnant! I hope your son will be able to support it!" "IT" is my future first grandchild and my husband's first (step-)grandchild.
My son and his wife do very well financially. He has a great job and is up for a promotion. I always feel like no matter what I say, my husband always has to put a negative spin on it. Or am I overreacting? - Happy Grandma To Be
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